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Money and Lottery, Marriage and Divorce, Parent¡¦s Worries

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[Kay, Cynthia and Ariel take a break in coffee shop after shopping.]

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[Cynthia just put down the newspaper on the table.]

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¡@ Cynthia:

How terrible the news is.

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¡@ Ariel:

What happened? Is there murder again?

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¡@ Cynthia:

No, it¡¦s about the lottery.

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¡@ Kay:

Oh, I knew that. I watched it yesterday on TV. I can¡¦t believe that the husband is so cruel. He steals his wife¡¦s lottery and leaves without telling her.

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¡@ Ariel:

So what? That ticket is just a sheet of paper.

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¡@ Cynthia: The key point is that the piece of paper is worthy of several ten million dollars. The woman is the lottery winner. ¡@
¡@ Kay:

And his husband steals her all prizes.

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¡@ Ariel:

Oh my god. What a sick world. How could he abandon his wife because of money?

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¡@ Cynthia:

I think money makes the man put the profits above their relationship of marriage.

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¡@ Kay:

I think so, too. Oh, when mentioning lottery, do you guys buy this issue of lottery?

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¡@ Cynthia:

Of course, I have bought several tickets already. Oh, I just can¡¦t wait to  know the lottery number.

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¡@ Ariel:

Why does the lottery let you so excited? Don¡¦t you feel bored about that?

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¡@ Cynthia:

Yes, I feel interesting. Why do you feel boring about it?

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¡@ Ariel:

Because I think that working hard is more practical than winning money by lottery. Do you agree it, Kay?

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¡@ Kay:

Well, not completely. Sometimes I would buy one ticket. It just gives hope to myself.

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¡@ Cynthia:

Yes, I have much hope. Have you ever bought the lottery, Ariel?

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¡@ Ariel:

No, never. I thought lottery has more disadvantages than advantages.  

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¡@ Kay:

How come?

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¡@ Ariel:

I think it¡¦s unrealistic. In order to win, people have blind faith in some divine Number.  In my point of view, lottery is random chance if without rules.

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¡@ Cynthia:

However, if we were lucky enough, we would still win the lottery, right?

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¡@ Ariel:

Yes. Many people have same thought as yours. Afterward, they go into bankruptcy. Is it worthy? I don¡¦t think so.

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¡@ Cynthia:

Come on. I am not the kind of people, OK? I just buy several tickets a week averagely.

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¡@ Ariel:

That¡¦s addiction. The lottery is not the tool of earning money. Having your feet on the ground is better for you.

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¡@ Kay:

But, the lottery is not as awful as you say. In fact, there still are benefits about lottery.

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¡@ Ariel:

Ariel: Really?

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¡@ Kay:

Yes, take the lottery funds for example. It has helped many poor to improve their life quality.  Besides, even the lottery winners donate their prizes to public welfare foundations.

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¡@ Cynthia:

I have heard that thing, too. Lottery is not another gamble. Maybe I am addicted a little, but it¡¦s not big deal to give myself hope.

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¡@ Ariel:

Even though the lottery has as many benefits as you say, I still won¡¦t buy one. Because I don¡¦t want my family treat me like the man on the news report.

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¡@ Kay:

The man is so heartless that he treats money more important than love between them.

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¡@ Cynthia:

If the police find the man for the wife, they must divorce.

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¡@ Ariel:

Of course. If I were the woman, I also wouldn¡¦t want to live with a guy who abandons and cheats on me. I really can¡¦t forgive that.

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¡@ Kay:

A couple should cherish each other instead of quarreling like that way. It is too sorrowful to bear.

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¡@ Cynthia:

Don¡¦t you think the divorce rate is getting higher and higher nowadays?

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¡@ Ariel:

No, more and more people get married late.

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¡@ Kay:

There are also people deciding to remain unmarried.

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¡@ Ariel:

Like me, I rather be single..

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¡@ Cynthia:

I have no comment.

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¡@ Kay:

Marriage is my dream. I¡¦d like to have my own family.

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¡@ Ariel:

I don¡¦t want to be responsible for a family.

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¡@ Cynthia:

But if you get married, you can have a baby.

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¡@ Kay:

Right, babies are cute, aren¡¦t they?

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¡@ Cynthia:

Babies can change your life, and they can bring you some funs.

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¡@ Ariel:

I don¡¦t think so. Babies are  burden to people.

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¡@ Cynthia:

Some families have economic problems; they can¡¦t bring up children.

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¡@ Kay:

So, we should have enough financial abilities first.

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¡@ Ariel:

That is not the only problem in marriage.

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¡@ Cynthia: Yes, there are other problems such as personality, personal hygiene, life style, etc. ¡@
¡@ Kay:

I think those problems can be solved after the couple is married.

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¡@ Ariel: After marriage? You mean¡K if you can¡¦t adjust to each other after getting married, you can¡¦t do anything but divorce? ¡@
¡@ Cynthia:

You can try to live together before the marriage.

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¡@ Kay:

That¡¦s a good idea!

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¡@ Ariel:

Cohabitation can help you know the condition of marriages.

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¡@ Cynthia:

So you mean if you can adjust, you can get married.

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¡@ Kay:

I¡¦ll try it before my marriage.

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¡@ Ariel:

I think that there is still a big problem to be aware of.

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¡@ Kay:

Really? What is it?

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¡@ Cynthia:

A big problem, you mean¡K

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¡@ Ariel:

How to raise up children¡K

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[Cynthia¡¦s cell phone rings]

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¡@ Cynthia: Hello...Oh, mom...yeah. I'm with my friends in a coffee shop...um, alright, I'll be back later, ok. ok. bye! ¡@
¡@ Ariel: Your mom is worrying about you again? Oh, you're already 20 years old; you are old enough to take care of yourself, right? ¡@
¡@ Cynthia:

Yeah, but¡Kshe just worries about me.

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¡@ Kay:

Why does she so worry about you?

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¡@ Cynthia: She says that the society is getting worse. She doesn't want me to be in danger. ¡@
¡@ Kay:

Um, so we can say that she is a good mother.

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¡@ Ariel: Yes, being a mother is always difficult and stressful. But I don't want to have a child after marriage, so I don't have to worry about children. ¡@
¡@ Kay:

Oh, you do? Why? Don¡¦t you think children are cute?

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¡@ Ariel:

Yes, but I think that taking care of a child is too hard.

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¡@ Kay:

But the birthrate in Taiwan is getting lower and lower.

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¡@ Ariel:

I know, but I still don¡¦t want a child.

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¡@ Kay:

Ok, maybe you will change your mind someday.

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¡@ Cynthia: So if you really don't have a child, you won't have to worry about many things about your children, just like my mom. ¡@
¡@ Ariel: Yes, and the society has become worse and worse, even in the daytime, there are still robbery, stealing, and violent attack. ¡@
¡@ Kay: For instance, not just at night, robbery also happens on the streets, banks, and stores. ¡@
¡@ Cynthia: And if children live alone outside, thieves will break into steal when they are not home. If they are at home, it can be more dangerous. ¡@
¡@ Ariel: When it comes to violence, it is a serious problem. Children who are assaulted by violence are badly hurt in mind. It could leave scars to their life. ¡@
¡@ Kay: Um, it's terrible. Besides the problem of safety, most parents may worry about their children's friends, relationships with people, or dating with the opposite sex. ¡@
¡@ Cynthia: Yes, it's important. If children can't get along with their friends, they could be isolated and lonely. ¡@
¡@ Ariel: They can't concentrate well in lectures; then they start to feel bored about their class. ¡@
¡@ Kay: Let's talk about dating. More and more suicides and killing cases are due to love affairs. Teenagers now can not solve this problem well on their own. ¡@
¡@ Cynthia: Yes, and if their boyfriend or girlfriend betrays them, they may kill her or him to solve the problem. This is a very wrong way. ¡@
¡@ Ariel: Um, and what's more, studies will be a problem that parents worry about. ¡@
¡@ Cynthia: Yes, yes, my parents always worry about that; I really don't know why studies could worry them to death. ¡@
¡@ Ariel:

Maybe they just want you to be the top of your class.

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¡@ Cynthia:

Ok¡K

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¡@ Kay:

Yes, and the most important is the health problem.

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¡@ Cynthia:

Un_huh, especially small children. They are easily get sick.

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¡@ Ariel:

Not only the small children, the older children would get sick, too.

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¡@ Kay: And children may be happy, depressed, or angry. However, sometimes the emotion problem will result in a big problem. ¡@
¡@ Cynthia: Until now, we have talked about so many problems with children, friends, sickness, and dangers. Wow, so many problems parents may worry about. ¡@
¡@ Ariel: Yes, and these are the reasons why I won't have children. Being a parents, one has to worry about too many things. ¡@
¡@ Kay:

Um, we can say that parents are really great.

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¡@ Cynthia:

Cynthia: Yes, it¡¦s really hard to be parents. And I think¡K

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Excuse me, hello... Oh, mom, yes, yes...ok... I'll be right back, bye.
Sorry, guys, I have to go.
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¡@ Kay:

Ok, we know, just go home; don¡¦t let your mom worry about you again.

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¡@ Ariel:

Good-bye, see you next time.

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¡@ Kay:

Bye bye.

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¡@ Cynthia:

See you.

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