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| ¡@ | 1. Of the ten conditions for people to be appointed to children¡¦s guardians, what are the four conditions which you think are the most important? | ¡@ |
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Of the ten conditions, in my opinion, money, love, kindness, and
patience are the most important if one want to be a qualified guardian for the children whose parents died or are unable to take care of them. Custodians like the natural parents should treat the children with their love. Educate them with patience and kindness so that the children will grow up with no fears. Provide them with sufficient material needs so that they learn to make living with their own efforts instead of dishonesty or stealing. All in all, children can grow up in a happy and wholesome family. |
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It¡¦s difficult for people to be guardians because it¡¦s not easy to teach
the personality of the children. The guardians should be patient and have the experience of teaching children. It¡¦s also important to have a good environment and have enough budget to provide them to go to school. Third, it¡¦s so tired to have so much work to do with children. It¡¦s better for the guardians not to have their own children so that they will have enough time with the adopted children. It¡¦s also important that the guardians are the people whom the children are familiar with and they like them because this intimacy can prevent the children from the permanent sadness resulted from losing caring from their own parents. |
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think wealth, health, time, and willingness are the four important
conditions. Someone who is lack of financial resource can¡¦t give many things to children. Someone who is in bad health cannot take care of him or herself not to mention small children. Someone who is busy with his or her career will not have time to be with the children. They won¡¦t have time to take part in ball games, school concerts or other extracurricular activities with children. However, the most important is willingness. If the guardian reluctantly takes this job, the children will grow up without love. |
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First, I think the guardians must bring happiness to the children.
Happiness depends on whether the guardians could give the children economic security, comfortable shelter and love. However, material comforts is no more important than personality development in terms of happiness. Accompanying the children during their growing pains should be top priority. Teach them disciplines and values. Provide them good education to prepare them to enter into adulthood. The guardians must know these things so that they will treat the children as their own. |
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