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Rub
out Regret
(1)
Whatever your regrets are, the fact is you can¡¦t change the past.
(2) But you can change how you feel about it. (3) We asked the
experts for their tips. (4) Here are the tips. (5) Allow yourself to mourn.
(6) Turning down that cushy job offer was a bad move. (7)Feeling the
disappointment is the first step to moving forward.
(8) Check in with reality.
(9) To get a little perspective, write down your biggest regrets.
(10) Then look at how your life measures up now. (11) Chances are
you¡¦re better off than you may have thought. (12) Learn form your mistakes.
(13) Maybe you¡¦ve decide that dating your co-worker was a big
mistake. (14) What then? Think realistically about what you did
wrong and how you can prevent it in the future. (15) Remember
your reasons. (16)
There¡¦s a tendency to ask yourself, ¡§How could I have been so
stupid?¡¨ (17) But if you take an honest look back at the
situation, you¡¦ll likely see that what you did made sense at the
time. (18) Don¡¦t get paralyzed.
(19) If you regret a comment made to a friend, you might find that
you¡¦re avoiding her. (20)You have to make yourself get involved
again. (21) So, apologize and move on.
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